There are moments when we give our best to people, yet receive little or nothing in return. We show kindness, but encounter ingratitude. We offer friendship, but receive rejection. We forgive, but are wounded again. What should a Christian do when love seems to go unanswered?
Today’s Gospel challenges us to look beyond human response.
Jesus reminds us that the Christian life is not built on applause, recognition or reciprocity. We are called to love because God is love, not because everyone will appreciate what we do.
Sometimes, we behave like children who complain when others refuse to dance to our music. We expect people to respond exactly as we want, and when they do not, we become bitter. But genuine Christian love is deeper than that.
The question is not, “What did they give me in return?” The better question is, “Did I remain faithful to who God calls me to be?”
Sts. Cornelius, Pope, and Cyprian, Bishop, whose memorial the Church celebrates today, remind us that faithfulness can demand courage and sacrifice. Their witness teaches us that following Christ is not always the easiest path, but it is always a path worth walking.
Perhaps someone has hurt you. Perhaps you have been misunderstood, ignored or rejected. Do not allow another person’s behaviour to determine the condition of your heart.
Keep doing good. Keep forgiving. Keep praying. Keep loving.
But remember: Christian love does not mean allowing yourself to be abused. It means refusing to let hatred take possession of your heart.
Today, ask God for the grace to love without demanding applause, forgive without keeping records, and serve without seeking recognition.
Lord, make my heart like Yours: generous in love, patient in suffering and faithful when love is not returned. Amen.
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