ASUU LEADER APPLAUDS ABIA’S BOLD EDUCATION PUSH
The President-Elect of the All African Students Union (AASU), Comrade Osisiogu Osikwe, has applauded the Abia State Government for its visionary commitment to the education sector, particularly the bold allocation of 20% of the state’s annual budget to…
HOOKUP CULTURE VS. EMOTIONAL INTIMACY – ARE WE LOSING THE ART OF LOVE?
In an age where relationships can begin—and end—with a swipe, many young people are wondering whether we are slowly losing the deeper, soul-forming art of love. The rise of hookup culture promises freedom, excitement, and emotional detachment. Yet…
MONOGAMY MYTHS: IS FAITHFULNESS A CHOICE OR CONDITIONING
Human relationships have always stirred deep questions. Among them none is more debated than the idea of monogamy. Is loyalty something we are taught or something we actively choose every day. This question has grown louder in a world where popular…
Should Relationships Be 50 50 or 100 100. The Equality vs Effort Debate
A quiet debate has been unfolding in homes. In church communities. In counselling rooms. It is a debate as old as companionship itself. Should relationships be built on equal halves or on the full and radical gift of oneself. Some say love must be…
THE FEMINIST SPLIT: CAN YOU BE INDEPENDENT AND STILL WANT TRADITIONAL LOVE?
There is a growing question that echoes through modern conversations about love, faith, and womanhood: Can a woman be independent and still desire traditional love? Can she excel in her career, make her own choices, and yet long for the gentle stability…
HOW SOCIAL MEDIA VALIDATION RUINS REAL CONNECTION part 2
In a world where every click is a heartbeat and every “like” feels like love, we have quietly traded something sacred — our genuine human connection — for the hollow applause of virtual validation. The screen glows, the notifications buzz, and we feel…
BOUNDARIES OR BARRIERS – WHEN “PROTECTING YOUR PEACE” BECOMES SELF SABOTAGE.
In our modern world, “protecting your peace” has become a slogan, a badge of emotional maturity, and a daily mantra for many. We hear it in sermons, read it in self-help books, and see it plastered all over social media. But like many noble ideas, it can…
HOW SOCIAL MEDIA VALIDATION RUINS REAL CONNECTION Part 1
Have you ever caught yourself refreshing your phone just to see how many likes or comments your post received? Many of us have. It starts innocently—sharing a moment, a thought, or a memory—but slowly, without realizing it, we begin to crave the…
IS COMMITMENT ANXIETY THE NEW NOMAL?
In an age of constant change, instant gratification, and fleeting connections, the word “commitment” seems to carry more weight, and more fear, than ever before. Whether in relationships, vocations, or even faith, many people hesitate to say “yes” with…
GENERATIONAL TRAUMA AND LOVE: ARE WE DATING OUR PARENTS’ GHOSTS?
Sometimes we think we are falling in love with someone new, but deep down, we may be replaying a story written long before we were born. The heartbreaks, silences, tempers, and fears of our parents can quietly script the way we love. Without realizing…