THE DANGER OF THE SEX APPEAL!
We need to break through the stereotypical constructs we have caged ourselves in, and rise towards greater pedestals of thought and action. Unfortunately, however, some men and women have made it almost impossible for us to do so. Lexicons define…
DEFINING PURPOSEFUL CHRISTIAN DATING
Years ago, I would never say this, but today, from experience, my perspective has undergone a paradigm shift. I think kids shouldn’t be discouraged from getting into relationships; more like family dates, picnics and the likes. From these kinds of…
WHY DO I KEEP MASTURBATING?
Preamble! As I journeyed through the world of Facebook, I came across this poster that Naij.com had put up on their page. It had “CONFESSIONS” written in bold letters. A sub caption encouraged people to talk about that habit they have found…
DON’T MARRY THE WRONG PERSON!
'Wale Victor Ibiyemi “The Pains of marrying the wrong person is worse than your present fear of not getting married. Marriage is not a competition. Take your time, fall in love, nurse your ambitions, groom your relationship, because forever is too…
ARE YOU IN A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP?
Have you or a friend ever been in a relationship where the other person was a little too needy, controlling, or demanding? Too often we can see the effects of how an unhealthy relationship can affect someone mentally, emotionally and spiritually. So how…
YOU CAN’T MAKE LOVE DRESSED UP
Recently, a colleague of mine uploaded a page from a book he was reading on our class chatroom on WhatsApp. The lines were DEEP. I loved it. I recognise thought patterns; writers that attempt to walk on the fringes of reality, and on the precipice of…
Are you contemplating abortion? Please think again!
Alpha point… I am moved to reflect on the sanctity of life, and the pains that many have had to go through because of the issues surrounding abortion. I am not going to reflect on relationship issues or premarital sex here (I have written about these on…
WE MAY WANT SEX, BUT IT’S HARDLY WHAT WE NEED!
Preamble I know, you’ll probably get like, “Oh please! This priest is at it again. Always claiming to know everything. Does he think he’s God?” But since I get that a lot, I really don’t mind, trust me. I would perhaps even…
WHAT TO DO WITH ALL THAT SEXUAL ENERGY!
Young people aren’t the only ones who think they have too much energy to burn. We all get caught up in a web of excess energies sometimes. And you know, excessive energy tends to become negative energy. But there’s a simple (perhaps not too…
Sexting? What in the world is that?
There are some negative acts that seldom make it to the homilies. I wonder why. Perhaps because like everything else, sin and evil is evolving, and preachers find it most difficult to catch up. Oh yes! Everyone and everything is on the move. We talk…